Borrowing Money Laws at Banks According to Islam

Who has never borrowed money? Of course both people who are or people who are less materially borrowing money are normal and are naturally in accordance with human nature according to Islam or human concepts in Islam. Assets in Islam are also the most important part so that people can move, do charity, and carry out their life goals. Every human being who lives there sometimes needs a loan and needs to be helped to meet his needs. Needs can be primary, secondary, or tertiary.

Even among the upper class people, of course, they often borrow and borrow money that can be used for tertiary purposes or develop their business and capital. Even the lower classes can also borrow money to fulfill their primary needs, from food, health needs, education, or other household needs. For this reason it is necessary to help one another, and to avoid the arrogant nature of not caring (the arrogant nature of Islam is something that is hated by Allah SWT).

In Islam borrowing and borrowing (debt) is something that is not prohibited. Islam regulates it and even allows it, provided that it is not of usury and is contrary to the basics of Islam in the pillars of Islam and in harmony with faith. None of the rules of Islam harm or even plunge. For this reason, the benefits of believing in Allah SWT, to the details of economic issues, Islam regulates it. In this case the example is the problem of mawaris in Islam (family property) and bank interest according to Islam.

However, developments in this era are developing as well as discussions about the law of borrowing money through banks. Some opinions say that this is haram because it includes usury.

To be able to understand it, here are two conflicting opinions about the law of borrowing money at a bank.

Bank type

Before knowing the different opinions regarding the law of borrowing money at a bank, then of course it is necessary to know in advance the type of bank that exists. In general, Muslims divide it into two, namely Islamic banks and conventional banks.

Conventional Bank
Conventional banks are banks that in implementing their service systems use economic processes in general. Conventional banks generally use the interest system and prioritize profits. Determination of interest and other provisions are made when the agreement is made on a profit basis The percentage given is based on the amount of money or capital lent. The existence of bank interest, still has to be paid without seeing whether the customer is profit or loss. However, interest payments do not increase even if the amount of profit is multiplied (the interest is fixed).

Islamic Bank
Islamic banks are banks which in their application use rules or Islamic sharia. Islamic banks do not use interest as applied by conventional banks in general. The system of Islamic banks is a partner or cooperation while the amount is made at the time of the contract based on the possibility of profit and loss. If there is a loss, then the loss will be borne jointly by both parties. While the distribution of profits increases according to the increase in income.

The following is an explanation of the law of borrowing money at the bank:

Allowable Opinion to Borrow Money at Conventional Banks
According to Rasyid Ridha
Rasyid Ridho is one of the scholars who brought the spirit of Islamic renewal in the modern era. He expressed his opinion regarding the Bank’s Interest in Conventional Banks. He said that the word Al-Ariba contained in QS Ali Imron verse 130 is usury or an addition that is doubled or adh’afan mudha’afah.

Usury in the period of the decline of the Koran is the advantage that is collected together with the amount of debt that contains elements of persecution and oppression, not just the excess or the increase in the amount of debt owed to the debtor.

According to M Quraish Shihab
Quraish Shihab is one of the scholars who supported the thoughts of Rashid Ridho. He said that bank interest in conventional banks was not the same as Riba. For this reason, he explained this in relation to the verse in the verse Al-Baqarah verse 278 along with the historical context when the verse came down.

The sociological background which is the cause of the decline in the verse on the prohibition of usury in the Koran is the behavior of the jahiliyyah people who multiply the return of the principal debt lent to debtors who are in dire need.

According to Umar Shihab
Prof. Dr. H. Umar Shihab in his book entitled Islamic Law and Thought Transformation explained that bank interest collected and given to customers was far smaller than the amount of interest or usury treated in the jahiliyyah period. Whereas, in the time of the Prophet Muhammad, the people who gave loans and collected usury got far greater profits because they had multiplied payments.

If seen in the present, we do not see the same thing, in fact, profits occur on both sides, between the borrower and the lender or the creditor and debtor. Therefore, bank interest cannot necessarily be forbidden because it is far different from what was practiced in the ignorance era. While Umar Shihab himself believes that bank interest is analogous to buying and selling based on liking.

From this, scholars who agree on the notion of usury, the meaning of usury, and the law of usury in Islam are associated with bank interest in the context of today, do not equate between usury and bank interest. Some other scholars also say that the existence of bank interest in conventional banks is a reasonable addition and indeed in accordance with applicable economic laws.

In General Opinion
We can see that the interest charged to customers also has functions for payment of services such as ATM cards, ATM machines wherever they are, other banking services, bank teller services, inflation that will never know when and when and other conditions which is without interest, the bank will lose money. And if there is inflation, of course our money will be safe because there are flowers that accompany our savings. This is a consequence of the development of technology, so the development of Islam in terms of the law will certainly follow it.

For this reason, according to some contemporary scholars, bank interest is not usury and borrowing from a bank is not prohibited and does not conflict with the function of Islamic religion. This shows that Islam and economic science are complementary and filling. Islam as a basis and economics as a development theory for application in a growing context.

Including the law of working in a conventional bank for Muslims is not prohibited, while there is no single work rule that violates the substance and basic principles of Islam. For example, not opening aurat, not committing fraud, not extorting, acts of injustice that harm many people, and so on according to Islamic law.

Opinions that do not allow borrowing money at conventional banks
The existence of differences of opinion or controversy regarding usury by the scholars is due to differences in understanding the purpose or illat contained in the verses of the Qur’an regarding usury and the problem of the danger of debt in Islam through conventional banks.

Classical Fiqh scholars with a method of understanding verses that tend to be textual and formalists understand that all additions in the economy (buying and selling) are imposed as usury. Whereas contemporary scholars regard it not as usury because it understands the substance approach and the things that make usury become illegitimate seen from its sociological context.
Here is one of the contents of Majma ‘Al-Buhuts Al-Islami, in the second conference, held in Cairo, in 1965 which became a reference for scholars to determine the prohibition of borrowing money in Conventional Banks. “Interest from debt transactions, all are illegitimate usury. It makes no difference, both debt for consumer activities and debt for productive activities. Because the Qur’anic and Sunnah arguments, all expressly state the illegitimate of the two types of usury from the debt. “(Fawaidul Bunuk Hiyar Riba, p. 130)

From the opinion of classical scholars and also scholars who are oriented to the text method, then getting a money loan in a conventional bank is unlawful. Whereas anything done in a conventional bank without sharia considerations is haram.

17 Benefits of Water When breaking fast

Water is pure water that is obtained because of sustenance from God and becomes something very valuable, humans and all creatures will not be able to live without water, humans may be able to spend time without eating but if you spend time without drinking, humans will not be able to survive life, more than 90% of the organs of living things need water.

Therefore, water is always discussed to be the best thing to release thirst and restore energy when breaking the fast in addition to eating sweet foods such as dates, water has an extraordinary content for anything including breaking fast, as follows, 17 benefits of water when breaking the fast.

1. Turning on Energy in Total

“And from water we make everything that lives. So why don’t they also believe? “(Qur’an, 21:30). Each break the fast, for example there is no other food or drink, only with water will be able to restore the energy which during the day is reduced, water becomes the best choice and becomes the most nutritious and most beneficial substance for all organs as explained in verse Qur’an about water.

The water that is drunk when breaking the fast and drunk before meals is able to enter the organs of the body and fill the cells in it so that all organs feel fresh and the energy that has been lost again again, water is much better than other water which has certain contents such as water cold or soda-containing water and other ingredients, you should always prioritize water as the main drink ingredient when breaking fast.

2. Health of the Organs

Rasulullah SAW said, “Drink with 3 gulps” (HR. Tirmidzi). Water will make healthy organs of the human body when drunk when breaking fast compared to other drinks that may be different from the body such as ice or soda, of course the benefits will be better if taken in accordance with the advice of the Prophet, namely in one glass three times gulp, indirectly drink immediately because if taken immediately it will affect the work of the kidneys and stomach as the priority of drinking while sitting.

3. Promotes metabolism

The body’s metabolism will be smooth when fasting starts with water, especially when taken with enough portions of 8 glasses a day and begins with praising Allah’s asthma according to the healthy tips of the Prophet’s style. “Verily Allah is pleased with a servant who enjoys food, then praises Allah afterward or sips a drink, then praises Allah afterward”. (Muslim)

4. Eliminate Tiredness

Water can eliminate fatigue and thirst in the body especially during a day of fasting because water is able to quickly enter into the organs of the human body and fill cells in it with energy and in accordance with the healthy lifestyle of the Prophet Muhammad. “And we sent down from the sky a very clean water, so that we might bring to life the water (land) that died” (Surat al-Furqon: 48-50).

5. Clear the Mind

Good water is drunk under normal conditions, which is not in cold conditions because of the refrigerator cupboards and not too hot, normal white air is able to refresh and clear the mind because it is a neutralizing toxin throughout the body that makes the soul calm in Islam. Zaadul Ma’aad, “Water that is too hot or too cold is both destructive.”

6. Prevent Pain

Water is good to drink in iftar and is able to prevent various diseases because white ait has a pure content, does not have a mixture or something harmful to the body. Rasulullah saw. said, “Zamzam five shuriba lahu”, which means “Water zamzam will carry out the message and intention to drink it”.

7. Prevent Obesity

Water consumed before eating at iftar will help prevent obesity because it is able to hold your appetite and must drink well using your right hand. “And if you want to drink, you should drink with your right hand. Surely the devil eats with his left hand and drinks with his left hand. “(Narrated by Muslim).

8. Advice from the Prophet

“Don’t drink while standing. Whoever forgets so that he drinks while standing, then let him try to spit it out. “(Narrated by Ahmad no. 8135). It is recommended to drink water while sitting when breaking fast because it is in accordance with the conditions of the organs and can prevent choking and various other diseases.

9. Has Pure Content

“Indeed the Prophet sallalla‘ alaihi wa sallam forbade to breathe or blow a container of drinking water. “(Narrated by Turmudzi no. 1888 and Abu Dawud no. 3728, this hadith is shared by Al-Albani). We recommend that you always drink pure, clean water, that is water from clean wells or other clean sources and in ripe condition.

10. Good For Throat

“It is fresher, tastier and more delicious.” Anas said, “Therefore when I drink, I breathe three times.” (Narrated by Bukhari no. 45631 and Muslim no. 2028). Water will refresh the throat and soothe it because it is made from pure and does not contain preservatives or other artificial mixtures.

11. Eliminate dizziness

Dizziness sometimes occurs due to lack of fluids or lack of water when dawn, water will neutralize and eliminate dizziness. [QS An-Nur: 43] “You do not see that Allah marches clouds, then gathers between (the parts), then makes them overlap, then you see rain coming out of the cracks and Allah (also) decreases (granules granules of ice from the sky “.

Besides being dizzy when the month of Ramadan can occur due to many idling and not doing any activities so that the organs and blood circulation will not run smoothly when waking from sleep the head will be dizzy and other risks, the best is to keep doing healthy activities and drink water.

12. Strengthens the Body

Water will nourish and strengthen the body as the word of God because water is pure and God creates the best ingredients for the health of the human body. [QS. Al-Anfal: 11] “Remember, Allah sent down to you rain from heaven to purify you with that rain and remove from you the disturbances of shaitan and to strengthen your heart and to strengthen it with the soles of your feet”.

13. Eliminating Disease

Water can eliminate disease when consumed with the right portion and the way it is in accordance with the portion and drink by using adab adab according to Islamic Shari’a. [QS. An-Nahl: 65] “And Allah sent down from the sky water (rain) and with the water He brought the earth to life after his death. Indeed, in that there are truly signs of the greatness of God for those who hear the lesson. “

14. Heart Health

The heart includes organs that can be healthy because water, water can neutralize toxins in the blood and reduce the work of the heart. [Surah Al-Mukminun: 18] “And We sent down water from heaven according to a measure; then We made the water settle on the earth, and indeed We truly had the power to eliminate it “.

15. Sleep well

[QS. Al-Mursalat: 27] “and We made him high mountains, and We gave you drink with fresh water”. By drinking water when breaking your fast, your body will be fit and have the effect of giving you a good night’s sleep so that the next morning you can do activities smoothly and suhour freshly.

16. Neutralizing Poison

White water is capable of being a poison neutralizer and is able to eliminate toxins by bringing toxins out of the body through sweat or urine, especially if you drink it when breaking fast before eating, your body will feel healthy and have smooth circulation and have a clean body throughout the organs .

[QS. Fathir: 12] “And there is not (between) two seas; this one is fresh, fresh, delicious to drink and the other is salty again bitter. And from each of those seas you can eat fresh meat and you can take out jewelry that you can wear, and on each of them you see ships sailing across the sea so that you can seek His gift and that you will be grateful “.

17. Balancing Body Nutrition

[QS. Al-Mulk: 4] “Who has created seven heavens in layers. You do not look at the Merciful creation of something that is not balanced. Then look again and again, do you see something that is not balanced.

Water will make the body balanced because with water when breaking fast the nutrients that enter can be absorbed properly and the nutrition is directed at the organs that are needed so that all organs have good quality and are prevented from any damage or any dangerous diseases.

Also read about the benefits of exercise during fasting and sunnah when breaking the fast. Thus this article, hopefully it is easy for you to understand it can become an Islamic discourse that is useful for you, don’t forget to always take the time to read our article so that you always get useful insights. Thanks for reading. Warm greetings from the author.

Understanding Usury According to Islam

Every prohibition and rule of God in Islamic teachings is certainly not just to avoid acts that are personal in nature. The rules and prohibitions that God gives always affect individuals and social as evidence that there are many functions of faith in Allah SWT. For those who violate it, the loss is in themselves and also the impact on the people around them.

“O ye who believe, do not eat usury multiplied, and ask your trust in Allah that you may have good fortune.” (Surah Ali-Imran: 130)

In Islamic teachings, what Allah conveyed through the above verse shows that usury is prohibited. In Islam, behavior and perpetrators of usury are acts of crime that Allah will curse both in his life in the world and in the hereafter. Usury is often related to bank interest or the addition of loan repayments. Included in this (wealth in Islam) usury is a regulated part of Islamic fiqh.

This is also conveyed by the Prophet Muhammad in a hadith, “the Messenger of Allah cursed (condemned) those who ate usury, people who represented him, the author and two witnesses.” (Narrated by Muslim)

Of course, as Muslims we must fully understand what the understanding and substance of Riba is. The behavior of usury is certainly not only detrimental to humans in the hereafter, but burns the rewards that are collected for the Hereafter. In accordance with the concept of human beings in Islam, of course there are no humans who want to lose their lives both in the world and in the hereafter.

Understanding Usury According to Language and Historical Context
In terms of the language of usury means to increase, develop, rise, or rise. This term is certainly very related to a particular context, namely in the economy. The increase in usury is not just an increase that is normal in nature, but is related to the social context of the community as when the verse came down.

In the development of Islam now, the term usury is often associated with bank interest law according to Islam and the law of borrowing money at the bank with interest, even to the legal level of working in a bank, which is in a conventional bank and there is bank interest.

In the history and context relating to the verse, there are several things that are important to understand the nature or substance of the prohibition of usury and the law of usury in Islam.

Buy and Sell Context
This context is when the seller sells the item to another person and is willing to accept money at a specified time. If the buyer is unable to pay according to the price at the specified time, then the term is added with the agreement willing to pay more. That is, the buyer is asked to pay more than the agreed price, when the time increases.

Context of Borrowing and Borrowing Money
This context is where someone lends money to another person for a certain period of time. The condition is that if it reaches a certain period of time then the borrower must pay the money in addition. So that returns are greater than when borrowing.

Loan Context / Debt involved
This context is often referred to as multiple additions. For example, for example, a borrower cannot repay a loan within a specified time. Then he must pay the debt with an additional larger amount during the grace period until the debt is completed.

From the historical approach, the meaning of usury according to Islam means not only as an additional cost. Usury is the addition of payments to people who are in debt, in a condition where the debtor is unable to repay the debt according to the time and amount specified. Against the debtor who is unable to pay it off, then the lender adds back the cost to burden the payment from the debtor.

In this case there is not always an addition equal to Riba. For example, people who add infaq to people who are unable, add children, add production materials, zakat officers add zakat funds to those who hide merchandise, etc. Of course this is not the same as the addition as found in usury.

Social Impact of Usury Behavior
The existence of usury behavior not only affects the person or one person. The prohibition of God against humans to do usury certainly has logical reasons that have social consequences as well. To unlock the effects of usury behavior, it is necessary to dismantle it from the Islamic and scientific approaches. The following are the social impacts caused by usury behavior.

Loss of Sense of Humanity and Help
People who are in debt or people who cannot afford to repay loans are people who do not have enough money or not enough money for something that is used for the primary (food, drinking, education, health, etc.). People who help lend are certainly expected to be oriented to reduce the burden and certainly do not add to the weight of the debtor.

If the debtor adds additional costs to those who are in debt and cannot afford it, the behavior is certainly not a human thing. A person who fulfills his life needs is difficult then added with additional burdensome costs, for the benefit that is obtained personally by the lender.

In addition, this can also have an impact on the lack of healthy ukhuwah and association in Islam or fellow Muslims. It has become an assumption that Muslims are like one body, which should help help in kindness rather than complicate and ensnare in the dark.

Increased Economic Difficulties due to Debt Circles that have not Been Completed
As a result of usury, people who borrow money or are in debt will become increasingly entangled and will never be finished with their difficulties. How can he pay for additional or usury given if he only pays the primary difficulty. For this reason, the presence of usury does not even alleviate the burden, even more strangling people with existing additions, and making debts will not end.

In fact, we know for ourselves that the existence of debt is a burden on someone. For this reason, one of the recipients of zakat is people who are in debt and have difficulty paying for it. This is done in order to free them from the bondage of usury and get out of the problem, until they are free to carry out normal economic activities again.

So that of course people who have sufficient assets do not need to show their attitude. Riya in Islam is bad behavior and plunges into evil. Riya people will boast and far from keiklasan worship to Allah SWT.

Hatred and envy appear
Moral hatred and malice will arise over the behavior of usury charged to someone. If there are many people who bear the debt and additions, this certainly becomes a problem and social upheaval. There will be malice, hatred for inhuman behavior, which is applied by lenders.

Indeed the concept of man in Islam and human nature according to Islam is in the world to be able to prosper the earth not to ensnare one another in trouble. The existence of usury is certainly very contrary to the concept. The danger of usury is like the danger of lying and its law in Islam, and of course it will lead to finah in Islam (fellow Muslims).

Indeed, for Muslims, other Muslim difficulties are the responsibility or obligation of Muslims who are able to help them. Not the other way around, which actually adds to the burden and plunges into debt which continues to convolute. For that reason, it is only natural that God threatens hell fire for those who commit usury.

The Importance of Cultivating Concern and Sincerity
Increasing fees or fees for those who are in debt and cannot pay it is certainly the behavior of usury. As a form of prevention of usury behavior for those who are able and like to give debt, the solution is to build morale or behavior that leads to caring and sincerity in helping.

If someone has a sense of caring and sincerity helps, above his wealth, he will often provide assistance instead of being turned on from the difficulties of others. A caring person will never have the heart to make trouble and make others angry. Likewise with sincerity is being able to give up his help without expecting any return from the person who is assisted, but only expecting blessings and the reward that Allah gives. Of course that is the virtue of being fair to oneself, including to others.

By cultivating this moral, Muslims will be born with strong assets, strong souls, and willing to help and support those who are in trouble. They support the weak not only oppress and live in support by weak people.

4 The Wisdom of Faith in the End of Days in Everyday Life

For every believer, the final day is a belief that cannot be contested. This is included in the pillars of faith, as Muslims must also believe and practice the pillars of Islam. The last day is information given by Allah SWT to humanity, without information when it will be time. Every believer will believe in coming while those who do not have faith in Allah will reject it and consider it illogical. Of course, for Muslims who believe in the last day also need to know the complete information about the end of the day in the Koran.

In addition to the need to know the meaning and meaning of the end of the Qur’an, Muslims also need to know the wisdom about the end of the day. This is so that this information can become a daily appreciation of Muslims. Every thing that God commands to be believed certainly has benefits. Like the benefits of worship in the following matters,

Benefits of Takbir
Benefits of Tarawih Prayer
Benefits of Reading the Qur’an Every Day
Benefits of Judgment
Benefits of Tahajjud
Benefits of Asmaul Husna
Benefits of Greetings
Benefits of Interfaith Tolerance
Of course, even with the wisdom of the final day, there will be benefits that will be received by Muslims who practice it. The following is an explanation of the end day and the wisdom behind it.

Understanding the End Times
“They ask you about the Resurrection:” When will it happen? “Say:” Verily the knowledge of the end is on the side of my Lord; no one can explain the time of his arrival besides Him. Doomsday is very heavy (huru haranya for creatures) who in the sky and on earth. Doomsday will not come to you but suddenly. “They ask you as if you really know it. Say: “Verily the knowledge of the doomsday is with Allah, but most people do not know.” (QS Al A’raf: 187)

In his verse, it is explained that the definition of the end of the day is a day where life in the entire universe ends, whereas when everything is destroyed, only Allah remains eternal and everything he wants. The final day is not only just the destruction of the universe, but there are stages of the next final day. Where all humans who have died and destroyed will be resurrected by being held accountable for all their deeds when in the world.

Regarding when the end of the day, of course, every human being will not be able to know it because everything is God’s secret. This is to test humans as far as they can do worship and practice as well. Humans can only predict from the natural signs that exist but certainly when they occur there will never be anyone who knows accurately and surely.

Wisdom from the Faith in the End Times
Faith in the end is certainly not only believing but also can be applied in practice as a form of belief in it. It is not in vain of course those who believe in the last day. There will be wisdom for those who believe and try to take their meaning to be lived and become enlightened lives on every day. The following is the wisdom of faith in the last day.

Increasingly Faithful and Faithful to Allah
The person who believes in the last day, then he will be more faithful and devoted to Allah. Belief in God will surely have an impact on the conviction of the end of the day and vice versa. Allah is the one who creates and determines the end of the day, so it is only to Allah that we ask for protection when the end of the day occurs so that we can be saved towards happiness hereafter.

“Say:” It is Allah who brings you to life and turns you off, after that you gather you on the Day of Resurrection which has no doubt on him; but most people do not know. “(QS Al Jatsiyah 26)

Fear Appears Not Being Able to Account
“(Ie) those who fear the punishment of their Lord, while they do not see Him, and they fear (the coming of) the Day of Judgment”. (QS Al Anbiya: 49)

People who believe in the final day will appear fear when doing something without having a right and rational basis. This is because when we face God directly when we have to take responsibility, it certainly cannot be done if since the world has never prepared it properly and our basic behavior is just careless. For this reason, faithful organizations on the last day will always do something with full accountability.

Steer clear of disobedience and bad deeds
“Say to My servants who have believed:” Let them establish prayer, spend a portion of the sustenance that we give to them secretly or openly before the day (doomsday) which in there is no buying and selling and friendship “( QS Ibrahim: 31)

Stealing away from immorality is a lesson that will be gained by those who believe in the last day. He will stay away from disobedience because he is afraid of the end and very heavy accountability later. For that, in doing it he will be careful and full of ripe calculations. Even he will not love the world too much, because what is in the world is essentially a test and a deposit that will be held accountable by God in the future.

Prepare Yourself with Professionals
“So they are not waiting for them but the Day of Judgment (ie) their sudden arrival, because the signs have come. So is it useful for them that their awareness is when the Doomsday has come? “(Surah Muhammad: 18)

The end of the day is sudden and unexpected, so a Muslim who has faith in the last day will truly be professionally prepared to face it. Professionally means seriously, there is an evaluation, always improving itself and also making continuous improvements to the life and worship that it lives. This is like an employee who works for his boss.

The Purpose of Human Creation, the Process of Human Creation, the Nature of Human Creation, the Concept of Humans in Islam, and the Nature of Humans According to Islam is the duty of humans to do it to Allah. For this reason, faith in the end of the day will make human beings best motivated to carry out their life missions according to the above matters by understanding the various Wisdom of Faith in the End Times.

In order to remain faithful to the Last Day
In order to have faith in the last day, a Muslim must always learn and understand this information in the Koran. People who do not believe at the end of the day, usually are those who have never experienced natural phenomena and what is conveyed in the Koran. Indeed, if they truly live it will truly be faithful and afraid of the last day. As in the following verse.

“Those who do not believe in the Day of Resurrection ask that the day be brought soon and those who believe feel afraid of them and they believe that the end is true (will happen). Know that those who argue about the end of the world are truly in distant error. “QS Ash-Shura: 18)

In order to remain faithful at the end of the day, the only way is to always dig up information about the end of various approaches. Information from the Koran, Science, Hadith, and other applied sciences will show that the final day will truly occur and can not be denied even though humans run to any planet.

“Those who reject their meeting with God have lost their lives. so that when the end of the world comes to them suddenly, they say: “How great is our remorse, for our negligence concerning the end of the world!”, while they carry sins on their backs. Remember, it is very bad what they carry. ” (QS Al An’Am: 31)

The trumpet is Jewish Culture

The trumpet is Jewish culture. But that is what the Muslims did on New Year’s Eve, just following Jewish culture.

Don’t believe?

Please reflect on the following hadith. From Abu ‘Umair bin Anas from his aunt who included Ansar shahabiyah,
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عن أبى عمير بن أنس عن عمومة له من الأنصار قال اهتم النبى -صلى الله عليه وسلم- للصلاة كيف يجمع الناس لها فقيل له انصب راية عند حضور الصلاة فإذا رأوها آذن بعضهم بعضا فلم يعجبه ذلك قال فذكر له القنع – يعنى الشبور – وقال زياد شبور الْيَهُودِ فَلَمْ يُعْجِبْهُ ذَلِكَ وَقَالَ «هُوَ مِنْ أَمْرِ الْيَهُودِ». قَالَ فَذُكِرَ لَهُ النَّاقُوسُ فَقَالَ «هُوَ مِنْ أَمْرِ النَّصَارَى». فَانْصَرَفَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ زَيْدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ رَبِّهِ
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“The Prophet thought about how to gather people to pray in congregation. There are some people who make proposals. The first one says, arkan Fly the flag when the prayer time arrives. If people see a flag flying, they will give each other the arrival time for prayer. But the Prophet did not approve it. The second person suggested using a trumpet. The Prophet did not agree, then he said, “Sounding the trumpet is the behavior of the Jews.” The third person suggested using bells. The Prophet commented, “That is Christian behavior.” After the incident, Abdullah bin Zaid bin Abdi Rabbihi went home. “(Narrated by Abu Daud no. 498. Sheikh Al Albani said that this hadith is saheeh)
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From the above hadith shows that the trumpet is a Jewish tradition. Now that is what people who celebrate the new year follow. Jewish culture is followed.
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Utilizing money to buy a new year trumpet including waste because it has channeled property not to goodness.

10 Characteristics of Infertile Wives Against Husbands According to Islam

Of course everyone wants to be able to foster a family that is sakinah, mawaddah, and warahmah, where there is harmony and happiness in the relationships that are established within the household, so that it is probable that their family will be lasting. One of the factors driving the creation of a harmonious family is the presence of a wife who always carries out her obligations as a wife, one of which is obeying her husband’s orders.

The Prophet sallallaahu Alaihi Wassalam once said:

لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لأَحَدٍ لأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا

It means “If I may order someone to prostrate to others, of course I would order a wife to prostrate to her husband.” (Narrated by Tirmidzi)

However, many of the wives did not understand the importance of it, even whether they realized it or not they did things that disobeyed their husbands. These things include:

Disobedient to husband
The characteristics of the lawless wife’s first husband is that the wife does not obey the husband’s orders. A good and righteous wife is a wife who always obeys her husband under any circumstances. By obeying the husband, it will be able to foster a sense of love and affection and husband’s loyalty to his wife. However, on the contrary, if the wife is not obedient to the husband, then it is likely that the feeling of affection, love, and loyalty of the husband will be lost.

Islam calls the actions of a wife who is not obedient to her husband as Nusyus, which means an attitude of defiance. That is, the wife who does Nusus is the wife who fights and violates the orders of the husband (disobeying the husband), and is not pleased with the position that Allah SWT has given him.

The Prophet sallallaahu Alaihi said:

قيل لرسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أي النساء خير قال التي تسره إذا نظر وتطيعه إذا أمر ولا تخالفه في نفسها ومالها بما يكره

Meaning:

 “Once asked the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam,” Who is the best woman? “He replied,” That is the most pleasant when seen by her husband, obeying the husband if governed, and not sidelining the husband to himself and his property so as to make husbands hate. ” (Narrated by An-Nasai and Ahmad)

In another hadith, He sallallaahu Alaihi said:

“If a woman always keeps praying five times a day, also fasts a month (in the month of Ramadan), and really keeps her genitals (from adultery) and truly obeys her husband, then it is said to women who have this noble character,” Enter in heaven through whichever door you like. “(Narrated by Ahmad and Ibn Hibban)

From the two hadiths above we can know that a wife who is obedient to a husband is one of the characteristics of a good woman, and for a woman like that, then Allah SWT promises them a paradise. But in reality there are many women who do not understand the importance of obeying the husband’s orders. Many reasons cause it such as social status and educational background owned by the wife is higher than the husband, and so forth.

There are so many actions that lead to disobedience of a wife to a husband, such as:

Get out of the house without permission from your husband
Words that hurt the husband
Open the husband’s secrets to others
Spending husband’s money excessively out of place
Betraying a husband, for example having an affair with another man
Negligent or unwilling to serve a husband, both openly and vaguely.

2. Demanding perfection in the household

Everything in this world is not perfect, including a household. Because perfection only belongs to Allah SWT. When a woman sees a film or by reading a novel that tells about the life of a household that she thinks is perfect, then she also wants to have the same thing.

And when he is married, chances are that he will be surprised and may not be able to accept the family life that he lived, where life is not the same as what he had dreamed before. Then he also demanded that the husband fulfill the needs he wanted without realizing that all things were not the same, each had their own advantages and disadvantages, including in a family.

3. To deny all forms of goodness that the husband does to him

Islam greatly glorifies a woman, even in Islam a mother has three times the right to be respected more than a father and heaven is under the sole of a mother’s foot. But Rosulullah Sholallahu Alaihi Wassalam said that the majority of the inhabitants of hell were women. How can it be like that?

One of the causes of a woman being a resident of hell is because of her kufr for the blessings given by Allah SWT. In this case it is because they deny all the good that has been done by the husband to them.

For example, a husband always tries to do good to his wife, but his wife sees something that is not liked by her husband, so he also says that there is not the slightest good that he can see from her husband.

4. Do not like the husband’s family

Marriage relations do not only aim to unite two men, namely men and women into legitimate relationships, but a marriage also aims to unite the two families. Love, affection, and respect for a husband will increase if his wife is able to put herself well in the husband’s family.

However, sometimes a wife demands that her husband’s attention and affection be addressed only to him, without realizing that the husband also has an obligation to serve his parents. This often leads to jealousy of the wife of the husband’s family and attempts to keep the husband away from his family.

5. The loss of Qona’ah’s sense and wife’s approval of what was given by her husband

Sometimes, even though the husband has tried his best to be able to fulfill the wishes of his wife, but when that desire does not materialize, precisely what he did was deemed futile by his wife. Why? Because the wife assumes that the efforts made by the husband are lacking, even just considered playing games. He is unable to understand that everyone, including her husband, has limited ability to do something.

6. Leverage the good that is done

It is undeniable that everyone, including a wife, has done good, even though it is only a date palm. However, it will be a form of iniquity if a wife brings up the good that she has done to her husband or family, even assuming that the goodness done by her husband is not greater than the good he does. This certainly will hurt the feelings of the husband.

7. Excessive jealousy

The next characteristic of the lawless wife’s husband lies in jealousy, which many wives don’t realize. One of human nature, especially women, is jealousy. Jealousy is okay, as long as you have the basis and are still within the reasonable limits. A wife’s jealousy towards her husband according to Islamic Shari’a is if the husband commit immorality such as adultery, tyrannizing his wife, reducing the rights of his wife, and so on.

Jealousy of a wife will be a form of iniquity towards the husband if jealousy does not have a basis in the form of facts or evidence and jealousy that is too excessive (jealous blind).

8. Lack or can not keep the husband’s feelings

A good wife must always try to please her husband, such as showing a friendly face, not wry, and cool when the husband looks at him.

In addition, the wife must always take care of her actions and sayings so as not to hurt her husband, for example not berating, criticizing, saying loudly, and often cornering her husband. This will make the husband feel hurt.
9. Too busy with activities outside the home

There is nothing wrong if a wife has an activity outside the home, but every time she does the activity, the wife must get permission from her husband and must not ignore her duties and responsibilities at home.

10. Less or unable to maintain appearance

A wife must be able to maintain her appearance in front of her husband, not only when she is traveling outside the home. If a wife looks dirty, shabby, and smells when in front of her husband, then don’t be surprised if over time the husband will not feel at home. But it is also a bad thing if a wife is too busy dressing up so she forgets her obligations as a wife.

Rights of Children Out of Marriage in Islam

Rights of Children Out of Marriage in Islam

Pregnancy out of wedlock and child rights issues outside of marriage in Islam, in this case there are several incidents which each have different laws, along with a full explanation to understand what are the Rights of Children Outside of Marriage in Islam.

1. First Event

If a woman commits adultery and does not understand the retribution of adultery in Islam then becomes pregnant, then a child out of wedlock who is born is a child outside of adultery with the agreement of the scholars. A child out of wedlock is denied to his mother and is not kept against a man who abuses his mother (his adultery father). Strictly speaking, the relationship of rights between a child out of wedlock and his father is cut off.

Likewise with the law of inheritance broken with his father in accordance with the method of inheritance in Islam, he only inherited his mother and his mother inherited it. Likewise the right of guardianship if a child out of wedlock is disconnected from her father. The guardian of the marriage is the sultan (ruler) or his representative like qadhi (the head). And it is not mandatory for his father to provide a child out of wedlock born from the results of adultery.

However, the relationship as mahram and communication to achieve wisdom in the relationship in Islam still exists uninterrupted even though the relationship of rights, inheritance, inheritance, livelihood is cut off. Because, after all, a child out of wedlock is a child out of wedlock, which is created from the semen even from the results of adultery. Therefore it is unlawful for him to marry a child outside of his wife’s marriage from the result of adultery as unlawful as a child out of wedlock whose woman was born from a legitimate marriage.

2. Second Event

If there is an oath of li’aan between husband and wife for example when the divorce law is unregistered. As explained (ie about how a child out of wedlock is male or female and similar to his parents in the womb,), then a child out of wedlock is denied to his mother. Likewise about inheritance law and livelihood and inheritance rights.

3. Third event

If a wife commits adultery which is a characteristic of a woman who is difficult to enter heaven. If an adulterous wife is well known to her husband or not then she is pregnant, then a child out of wedlock who was born was prevented from her husband, not to men who menzinai and impregnate her with the agreement of the scholars based on the words of the noble Prophet

A child out of wedlock is the right (male) who has a bed and for those who commit adultery do not have any rights (for a child out of wedlock). [Saheeh hadiths from Bukhari (no. 6749) and Muslim (4/171).

The purpose of the words of the Prophet sallallaahu ‘alaihi wa sallam above is that a child out of wedlock belongs to a legitimate husband even though it is born from the proceeds of adultery of his wife with another (male) person. Still, a child out of wedlock belongs to him and is prevented from him. Whereas for men who insult their wives they do not have any rights to a child out of wedlock.

The above events outside Li’aan’s law and the difference are: if the husband’s li’aan law accuses his wife of adultery or denying a child out of wedlock that his wife conceived before the judge so that it is carried out outside of the oath of li’aan. In the case of this li’aan, a child out of wedlock is denied to his wife both the accusation of the husband is true or false. Whereas in the case above, there is no li’aan oath, even though the husband knows that his wife has committed adultery with another man. This is because the husband did not report his accusations to the judge so that he could not be carried out outside of the oath of li’aan. [8]

4. Fourth event

If a woman commits adultery and then becomes pregnant, may she be married to a man who impregnates her and to whom a child is kept out of wedlock? He replied: May he be married to a man who insulted him and impregnated him with an agreement (ijma) by fatwa experts, as confirmed by Imam Ibn ‘Abdil Bar quoted by al Hafizh Ibn Hajar in his book Fat hul Baari (juz 9 p. 157 in the book section marriage chapter: 24, hadith: 5105) [9].

The Story of the Rights of Children Outside Marriage in the Period of the Prophet

1. First: Fatwa of Abu Bakr Ash Shidiq

Ibn Umar said: When Abu Bakr Ash Siddiq was in the mosque a man suddenly arrived, then Abu Bakr said to Umar, “Stand up and pay attention to his affairs because in fact he has an (important) affair.” Then Umar stood up to him, then the man explained his business to Umar, “Actually I was a guest, then he committed adultery with a child outside of my daughter’s marriage !?” Then Umar hit the man’s chest and said, “May Allah make you worse! Don’t you just close (the secret of adultery) to a child outside the woman’s marriage! “

Then Abu Bakr ordered that a marriage be carried out so that the law would be carried out (beaten a hundred times) against both (male and female adultery). Then he married the two then he ordered that they be exiled for one year. [Narrated by Imam Ibn Hazm in his book Al Muhalla juz 9 p. 476 and Imam Baihaqiy in his book Sunanul Kubra (juz 8 p. 223) from the path of Ibn Umar]. [10]

2. Second: Fatwa of Umar bin Khattab

Abu Bakr’s fatwa at the same time became the fatwa of Umar and even the fatwas of the Companions. This was due to the fact that the fatwa and Abu Bakr’s decision occurred in the presence of the Companions or known by them, especially ‘Umar. And all the silent Friends agreed and none of them denied the fatwa. All of this shows that there has been an ijma among the Sahaba that women who commit adultery and then become pregnant may even have to marry a man who insulted her and impregnated her. Therefore we see the Companions acting as above, among them Umar bin Khattab when he became caliph as the history below:

Abu Yazid al Makkiy said, “That there is a man married to a woman. And the woman has a child out of wedlock a girl who is not (a child out of wedlock) from a man (who has just married her) and that man also has a child out of wedlock who is not (a child out of wedlock ) from these women, (ie each of them brought a child out of wedlock, a man who brought a child out of wedlock to a man and woman carrying a child out of wedlock).

Then the young man and a child out of wedlock the girl commits adultery so that she appears to the girl’s pregnancy. So when Umar came to Mecca, the incident was presented to him. Then Umar asked both of them and both of them acknowledged (had committed adultery). Then Umar ordered to whack both of them (carried out law had). Umar was eager to gather between the two (in one marriage) but a young child out of wedlock did not want to. “[Issued by Imam Baihaqiy (7/155) with authentic sanad].

3. Third: Fatwa of Abdullah bin Masud:

From Hammaam bin Harits bin Qais bin Amr An Nakha’i Al Kufiy: “A man who committed adultery with a woman then the man wanted to marry the woman?” Ibn Mas’ud replied, “Why is that not so.” [Issued by Imam Baihaqiy (7/156) in mu’allaq with authentic sanad on Muslim terms]

From ‘Alqamah bin Qais (he said): Indeed a man has come to Ibn Mas’ud. Then the man asked, “A man commits adultery with a woman then both repent and do good deeds, is it permissible for the man to marry the woman?” Then Ibn Masud read this verse:

Then really your Rabb to those who do evil with ignorance, then after that they repent and they do good, in fact your Rabb after that is Forgiving (and) Most Merciful. [An Nahl: 119]

Said Alqamah bin Qais, “Then Ibn Mas’ud repeated the verse many times until the person asking was convinced that Ibn Mas’ud had given relief in this matter (ie he allowed it).” Issued by Imam Baihaqiy (7/156) . Then Imam Baihaqiy (7/156) also narrated from another road which is similar to the history above, but in this history Ibn Mas’ud reads the verse: [14]

And He is (Allah) who accepts repentance from the servants of His servants and forgives of mistakes (theirs) and He knows what you do. [Ash Shuura: 25]. [15] In some of these narrations there are additions: After Ibn Masud read the verse above he said, “Let him marry her!”

4. Fourth: Ibn Umar’s fatwa

Ibn Umar was once asked about a man who committed adultery with a woman, could he marry him? Ibn Umar replied, “If both repent and both do good (ie do good deeds)”. [Issued by Imam Ibn Hazm at Al Muhalla juz 9 p. 475].

Thus, what the author can say, hopefully to be a useful Islamic insight, see you in the next article, thank you.

The Right of a Widow in Islam

Every individual wants happiness as the verse of the Qur’an about making people happy, one of happiness that can be achieved is by getting married, but building a harmonious family is not easy, because there will be various problems in the household. And if the problem cannot be resolved, divorce is the only solution to the last. With the divorce occurring, there will be a waiting period for the wife called the iddah period, where in this period of time, the wife is obliged to get her rights like the rights of a widow in Islam.

Fiqh madzhab (Hanafi, Maliki, Syafi’i and Hambali) agree that the wife divorced in the form of raj’i divorce, has the right to obtain the rights of a widow in Islam and the place of residence during the period of Islamic law in accordance with the conditions of divorce in Islam. Based on the statement above, the study of the rights of widows in unmarried widow Islam becomes interesting and very important, this is due to the difference between Islamic law. In this case, it will be discussed in full in the view of Islam, A Widow’s Rights in Islam.

The right of a widow in Islam or the virtue of supporting a widow is to fulfill the food needs, a place to live, the obvious right of a widow in Islam is a gift from a husband who is obliged to his wife, because of a legitimate marriage bond. The amount of the rights of a widow in Islam is based on the husband’s economic condition and cannot be forced according to the wife’s wishes.

According to fiqh madzhab (Hanafi, Maliki, Syafi’i and Hambali) agree that the rights of a widow in Islam are more emphasized on food (food), clothing (clothing), shelter (board) in order to achieve tips on living happily in Islam. But in the legislation in Indonesia the essence of a widow’s rights in Islam is closely related to money issues, social status, ways of life and changes in situations and conditions. So that the rights of a widow in Islam can develop in everything that is related to a rational need for life

The right of a widow in Islam and the obligation of a wife in the iddah period become elastic and flexible depending on the conditions surrounding it in the form of social reality and the development of individual life needs and the real conditions of the life of a married couple. So the rights of a widow in Islam can also be in the form of household costs, costs of care, and treatment for the wife.

The right of a widow in Islam during the Iddah period

 The right of a widow in Islam iddah is the giving of a husband to his wife, in the form of shopping for the necessities of his life, during the period of the iddah due to the divorce which was dropped on him. According to the schools of fiqh (Hanafi, Maliki, Shafi’i and Hambali), the right of a widow in Islam iddah is the giving of a husband in the form of a widow’s rights in Islam and a place of residence that his wife receives when undergoing the iddah period. So it is understandable that the wife has the right to get the rights of a widow in Islam and her place of residence, from her husband during the Islamic period, especially in the talak of raj’i.

 The right of a widow in Islam iddah in the form of a widow’s rights in Islam and maskan (place of residence), Hanafi, Maliki and Hambali argue that the rights of a widow in Islam that are given by husbands to wives have no limits, according to syara law ‘, but are more measured by circumstances husband and wife.

Whereas Shafi’i determines the right of a widow in Islam 1 day per day for the poor, one half mud for the person who is and for the rich 2 mud, of course the right of a widow in Islam iddah is the same as the right of a widow in Islamic wife before divorce, under the pretext, a wife who is accused and can be referred by her husband still occupies a position as a wife, where the husband is obliged to give the rights of a widow in Islam and a place to live.

Opinion of the School of Fiqh Regarding the rights of a widow in Islam

The opinions of the Islamic jurisprudence regarding the right of a widow in Islam and the place of residence in the period of iddah, in the form of talak raj’i or talak bain, have similarities and differences including:

Hanafi School of Religion
Madhab Hanafi states, the obligation of a widow in Islam to a wife divorced by raj’i divorce or ba’in, he still has the right to the rights of a widow in Islam and the place of residence of her husband during the wife, not leaving the place provided by her husband and as a result of his restraint during this period for the rights of the husband, this applies to wives who are pregnant or not.

Maliki School of Religion
Madikab Maliki stated that the wife divorced in the form of raj’i divorce had the right to obtain the rights of a widow in Islam and residence. Furthermore, Imam Malik said that the right of residence applies to the form of divorce with talak raj’i or ba’in during the period of iddah, based on the word of Allah in the letter At Talak verse 6 which is “place them (the wives) where you live”. But for the rights of a widow in Islam the wife does not get it at all.

Shafi’i School of Religion
The Syafi’i School of Religion discussed the rights of a widow in Islam and the place of residence for wives who undergo the iddah period, that the right of residence applies to the public, namely all forms of divorce. The right of a widow in Islam according to Imam Syafi’i only applies to wives who are divorced in the form of divorce that is possible for the existence of consent between husband and wife namely talak raj’i,

while in the case of the rights of a widow in Islam for wives who are not pregnant and are not married, they have no right to get food and clothing from their husbands, this is based on the word of Allah SWT, “if they (wife who has been accused) are pregnant, then give to them the right of a widow in Islam until they give birth “. Understanding this verse shows the non-obligation of giving the right of a widow in Islam to a wife who is not pregnant.

Imam Ahmad
Imam Ahmad stated that the right of a widow in Islam and a special place of residence for a wife divorced from raj’i divorce. So that the wife divorced from Talak Ba’in did not get the right of a widow in Islam or residence.

Obtained Rights Category

All scholars of the school agreed that the wife divorced in the form of raj’i divorce, had the right to obtain the rights of a widow in Islam and the place of residence of her husband during the period of iddah. Whereas talak ba’in ulama differ in opinion which can be categorized into three categories, namely:

Not entitled to the rights of a widow in Islam, but obtaining residence rights is the opinion of the Maliki and Shafi’i schools.
Entitled to the rights of a widow in Islam and place of residence is the opinion of the Hanafi School of Religion.
Not obliged to give the rights of a widow in Islam and the place of residence is the opinion of the Hambali school.
The rights of a widow in Islam Iddah According to Islamic Law

Compilation of Islamic law also regulates the granting of the right of a widow in Islamic ex-husband, to his ex-wife because of divorce, namely in article 149 paragraph (a) and (b):

When the marriage breaks because of divorce, then the ex-husband is obliged to:

Giving decent assets to his ex-wife, whether in the form of money or objects, except for the ex-wife qobla al dukhul;
Giving the right of a widow in Islam, asking and kiswah to ex-wives while in iddah, unless the ex-wife has been sentenced to talak ba’in or nusyuz and is not pregnant.
The granting of the rights of a widow in Islam iddah is also stated in article 152 which reads, the ex-wife has the right to get the right of a widow in Islamic law from her ex-husband, unless he is nuyuz. In addition to getting the rights of a widow in Islam iddah, the wife who is in the past also gets property, property is the gift of a former husband to a wife who is subject to divorce in the form of objects or money and others. This is based on KHI 158:

Assets must be given by the husband with the following conditions:

No dowry has been set for the wife of ba’da al dukhul;
Divorce is the will of the husband.
Compilation of Islamic Law also regulates the amount of property set in article 160 which reads: “The amount of property is adjusted to the propriety and ability of the husband”. Based on the information above, it is clear that the wife has the right to obtain the rights of a widow in Islam while undergoing the period of the period and also the property or gifts, on the part of the husband who divorced her. Indeed women still have to get protection and kindness regardless of their status.

Thus the author can convey, That is the right of a widow in Islam in accordance with the source of Islamic Shari’a, hopefully it is useful as an Islamic insight and can be a guide to be applied in daily life. See you in the next article, thank you.

Former Wife Rights in Islam

In a marriage to achieve the meaning of marriage in Islam, sometimes there are problems that lead to divorce, when the event occurs, often the communication relationship is broken and both do not carry out their respective obligations, not even a few who fight because of custody issues etc.

In Islam, according to the requirements of married men in Islam, an ex-wife who has been divorced by her husband still gets the rights in the form of rights and other things, this has been regulated in Islamic Shari’a, here is complete information about Ex-Wife Rights in Islam. In this case, there are various laws in accordance with the divorce event that occurred, namely:

1. If a husband divorces his wife, then the law grants him the right (livelihood), namely:

If the wife is pregnant
If when divorced, the ex-wife is pregnant, according to the law divorcing a pregnant wife then it is obligatory for the husband to continue giving him the right (income) (the cost of daily living) until his ex-wife gives birth. If his ex-wife has given birth then it is not obligatory for him to give him the right (income) again, because the term ‘iddah is completed and no longer predicate as his wife. According to the verse: “And if they (ex-wife of divorced ex-wives) are pregnant, then give them their rights until they give birth”. QS. Ath Thalaq: 6

If you can still refer
If the ex-wife is not pregnant the divorce law for a pregnant woman and her divorce is raj’i divorce (which can still be reconciled), then when the ‘iddah period is over, the husband is not obliged to give him the right (opinion) according to the Fatima binti hadith Qois from the Messenger of Allah, he said about divorced women, “There is no right of residence and right for him.” (HR. Muslim 2717)

If it’s still iddah period
Whereas if the ex-wife is still in the future ‘iddah then still get the rights of a widow in Islam, then the husband is still obliged to give him the right (income), because at that time he was still considered his ex-wife, until the term‘ iddah was finished. Or if the ex-wife is breastfeeding her child, then she must provide a wage / reward to his ex-wife for breastfeeding their children based on an agreement that has been agreed to by both, as in QS Ath Thalaq verse 6: “” then if they suckle (children ) You for you, then give them their wages. “

Therefore, if the ex-wife is still in the period of ‘iddah and divorce of raj’i divorce (who can still reconcile), the husband still gives a ten percent allowance for the salary, but if the term is over, then their divorce is good officially recorded or not, the husband is not obliged to provide for his ex-wife and may not provide the ten percent allowance because he is no longer his ex-wife, even the husband must return the allowance, and is obliged to arrange his divorce official letter so that he no longer receives benefits that are not the right again.

2. Child care rights

Child is still small
If these children are still small, then the right to care is to the ex-wife, as long as the ex-wife is fit to care for them and has not remarried. As in the hadith of Abdullah bin Amr radiyallahu’anhu that a woman came complaining to the Prophet sallallaahu’alaihi wasallam after being divorced by her husband, and the husband wanted to take his child, the Prophet said: “You are more entitled to his care as long as you are not married again”. (Abu Daud: 2276).

The child has reason
And if the children have reached the age of tammyiz (understanding) around the age of seven years, then they are given a choice, want to stay with their father or with their mother. As in HR Abu Daud (2244) that the Prophet sallallaahu’alaihi wasallam gave a choice for a child to choose to live with his father or mother.

If the wife is busy
But if the ex-wife is busy with her work, so that the maintenance of her children is not going well, or even neglected, then their father should persuade or ask his ex-wife to take their children to get better care and attention. If his ex-wife does not want to, while he is worried that his children will grow up in poor coaching conditions, then he should demand his maintenance rights to the court, arguing that their mother is no longer fit to maintain and nurture them.

Do not abandon children
If this is not the case, then both of them (their mother and father) are equally sinful because they abandoned the formation of their children. But if their father has tried his best, his case is still won by their mother, so their father does not bear any sins if his children are not well-developed, but he is still obliged to advise the ex-wife and pay attention to her children from afar, even though if they have reached the age of seven, they must be given a choice, want to stay with their father or mother.

3. Is the ex-husband obliged to provide for his children who live with his ex-wife?

Yes, he is still obliged to provide a living for his children who live with his ex-wife until the child reaches adulthood or can provide a living for himself, as for the daughter, then she is still obliged to provide her income until marriage. The magnitude of the value of the rights (income) is based on the results of an agreement made before the court.

Provisions for Granting Ex-Wife Rights in Islam

In Islam also mentioned about the provisions of the level of rights (occupation) and the ability to fulfill the obligations (rights) have a close relationship in the application of rights (income) in real terms, it is recognized that, indeed among the scholars there are differences of opinion regarding the level, type and ability of rights (income) in person in fulfilling, among others in determining the type of needs of rights (income) for example.

Type
In Kitab al Akhwa >> l asy Syakhsyiyyah ‘ala> Maza> hib al Khamsah, that some Islamic jurists argue that what is meant by basic needs (types) in rights (income) are food, clothing and shelter. While the other scholars argue that what is meant by basic needs is food alone, not in the clothing and shelter or place of residence.

Adapted to ability
Rights (income) in divorce are defined (limited) by the state of shara ‘that is limited to the state of shara’ itself. As in this case Imam Malik argues that rights have no limits, both in the maximum and the minimum. However, Abu Hanifah in his opinion gave a limitation of the right of obligation (ie income), that is, at least baju kurung, piercing clothes, veils, should not be more than half a dowry. While Imam Ahmad argues that mut’ah is in the form of a kurung shirt and a veil that is only enough to be used to pray, and this is in accordance with the ability of the husband.

Even so f urf Muslim community is wiser and wiser, their perception of rights (income) is nothing but include food drinks (food), clothing and jewelry (clothing) and also a decent place to live. Except for those who are truly incapable, perhaps that is the food they provide.

Furthermore, regarding the level of rights (livelihood), in this case is the right (income) for the ex-wife, the Qur’an does not mention its provisions, the Qur’an only gives very wise guidance / advice, namely by submitting to the ex-husband a measure worth (ma’ruf) according to his ability, this is in accordance with the Word of God in Surat al-Baqarah (2): 236.

In this case H. Sulaiman Rasyid argued that it was obligatory for husbands to give expenditure to obedient wives, both food, clothing, shelter according to the conditions at each place and the husband’s level. The amount according to hajat and the customs that apply in each place,

keeping in mind the level and condition of the husband. The point is a measure of how much rights (income) is the ability of the husband. Sulaiman Rasyid further explained that although some scholars say the rights (wages) of the wife are of a certain level, but that Muhammad is not determined, it is only enough and menginggat the situation of the husband.

Thus it is clear that if a husband is found to be wealthy, according to his ability, his right is equal to his wealth. Vice versa. Like the word of God in surat al Baqarah (2): 223 and also a letter at Talaq (65): 07, Imam Malik explained that the right (income) there is no limit which is ma’ruf (proper), in the least or the number

That is the thing that must be considered in marriage, when there is a divorce, it is still obligatory to provide income to his ex-wife because it is the right of the ex-wife and obligations of the ex-husband. Thus, the writer can convey, hopefully it can be a useful Islamic insight, see you in the next article, thank you.

15 Rights of Wives in Islamic Households

The Messenger of Allah who has the way of the Messenger of Allah glorifying his wife is the most perfect human choice of God. He is able to act and act the best in any condition. As a servant who was given the mandate to spread the source of Islamic Shari’a, he carried it out with enthusiasm, patience, and firm determination for the religion of God.

On the battlefield when fighting to defend Islam and carry out the law of defending rights in Islam, he became a leader who mastered strategy and was able to defeat the enemy in a straight way without cheating or evil ways. In the middle of the community he became a figure of friends, friends, authoritative teachers.

And even at home, the Prophet became a merciful and head of a household who was fair and able to provide security and happiness for his wife, for example whatever the attitude of aisyah to the Messenger of Allah always received affection and patience. It is not wrong if he is used as an example for all Islam.

As believers who follow the teachings of the Apostle and carry out the civilized law with the Prophet, we should follow the example of the Prophet in loving his wife, how the Prophet always pleased his wife and how the Prophet always said softly and treated his wife well. The Prophet became a role model for husbands as well as all men who would later become a husband about how to give full rights to wives in their daily lives or household.

1. Get Romantic Treatment

The first way the Prophet did to love his wife was that he always treated his wife with love and affection as a way for the Prophet to spoil his wife. The Prophet often kissed his wife “The Prophet often kissed Ayesha and it did not cancel the fast”. (HR Nasai). The explanation of the hadith is that the Prophet kissed his wife for wanting to give pleasure and happiness, not only because of lust.

2. Get Soft Words

The Prophet expressed love in a simple and simple way. He once said “I was given sustenance in the form of love for you O my wife”. (Muslim). The sentence is simple without containing an excessive sentence of praise, but it is deeply memorable isn’t it? A wife will certainly be happy if she hears the sentence from her husband.

3. Called with a Beautiful Call

The Prophet always called his wife with a beautiful call that was liked. Aisha was called by the call “Yes Humaira” (O woman whose cheeks are red and red).

4. Pampered

From Anas said: “Then we went to Medina. I saw the Prophet provide a soft seat from the fabric behind him for Shafiyyah (one of the wives of the Prophet) then he sat beside his camel while straightening his knees and Shafiyyah put his feet on his knees so he could ride the camel “. (HR Bukhari). The hadist recounts that the Prophet spoiled his wife by giving service and providing comfort for his wife.

5. Given a gift

As a desire to make his wife happy, the Prophet once gave his wife a present. “The Prophet gave each of his wives a bottle of Kasturi oil”. (Ahmad). The gift is not something that aims to overdo or create an inherent luxury, but a simple thing that is useful and liked by his wife.

6. Get Time from Husband to Eat Together

The Messenger of Allah often behaves sweetly by eating or drinking together with his wife, he does not show disgust or the like, but with a happy attitude because he accepts his wife as he is.

From Ayesha ra “I used to eat porridge with the Messenger of Allah in the same container, I drank water with a glass and he put his mouth in the glass and then he drank”. (HR Abdurrozaq and Said bin Manshur).

7. Softly coaxed when angry

In domestic life, of course, you have experienced a dispute, either because of the problem of misunderstanding in saying words, factors of busyness, jealousy, or between one another feeling less attention.

When the Prophet’s wife was angry or felt uncomfortable in his heart, the Prophet did not respond with harsh sentences or stiffness to his wife, but cooled his wife’s heart in a sweet and gentle way. “The Prophet massaged Aisha’s nose if she was angry and said: Yes Humaira, read prayer: O my Lord, forgive my sins, remove the hardness of my heart, and protect me from misleading slander”. (Ibn Sunni)

Wife rights in Islam should not be scolded as the Prophet did not respond to his wife’s anger with anger, especially by hitting his wife narrated by Aisha, “the Prophet never hit his wife even though”. (Muslim).

8. Kissed When You Want to Travel or Just Go Home

From Ayesha ra “The Messenger of Allah always kissed his wife before going out to pray, then went out to pray without performing ablution first”. (Ahmad). This is a very meaningful thing for the wife, the Prophet tried to give peace to his wife as long as he traveled by kissing him first so as not to cause bad prejudice on the wife’s heart because the husband had asked permission and said goodbye.

9. Get Softness

It aims to show that his wife is needed and loved by the Prophet, he rests on his wife’s lap with the aim of loving each other. “He (the Prophet approached him (Aisha) and he was in his room, then he combed him, even though he was menstruating” (Muslim).

10. Conducting Joint Household Activities

In a history the Prophet bathed with Ayesha in one bathroom with the same tub “I (Ayesha) once bathed from jinabat with the Prophet with one place of water, our hands always took turns taking water, and our hands touched”. (HR Mutafaqun ‘Alaih).

Bathing with a wife is not a disgraceful act or something that is prohibited in Islam, a husband and wife have full rights in love and service for each other. The Prophet did this to serve and give his wife joy.

11. Listen to complaints

When he heard complaints from his wife, the Prophet heard his wife’s complaints with patience and responded well. he did this to give his wife the right that one of the duties of a husband was to be a leader and decision maker when his wife was struck by confusion. From Ayesha ra “the Messenger of Allah is the most gentle person and many accompany his wife who is complaining or ill”. (HR Bukhari).

12. Traveled

Ayesha ra said: “If the Prophet wants to travel, he does a lottery among the wives, whoever comes out his name, then he is the one who goes with him”. (HR Bukhari).

13. Assisted in Domestic Work

This was stated by Aisha when someone asked her about any affairs that were usually done by the Prophet when she was at home, Aisyah replied: “The Prophet helped carry out family work”. (Bukhari)

When asked by Ayesha “O Messenger of God have you not guaranteed heaven? Why are you still struggling like this? He replied “Yes Humaira, can I not be a grateful servant?” (HR Bukhari).

The hadith stated that the Prophet was willing to help with household chores even if he was tired or heavy to do as a form of gratitude to Allah for having been given a wife and a real manifestation of gratefulness by treating his wife very well.

14. Stroked

The Prophet gave love to his wife by routinely caressing and fulfilling the inner livelihood which is his wife’s right, “Every day the Prophet caressed all his wives one by one. He approached and stroked without interfering until he stopped at his wife’s place which he shifted and then spent the night in his place “. (Ahmad).

15. Not burdened

In a story narrated that Ayesha waited for the Prophet because she had not returned until midnight, Aisha waited for her to go home to fall asleep near the door of the house. When Rasulullh arrived home and realized it was late at night, he wanted to knock on the door but was worried that he would disturb Ayesha who might have fallen asleep.

He then held a turban before the door and slept on it. Even though he was tired he did not want to disturb or burden his wife. And that night without knowing each other they fell asleep at the door.

In the morning when Ayesha opened the door she was shocked to see Raulullan sleeping outside and the Prophet said “I came home late at night. For fear of disturbing your sleep, I can’t bear to knock on the door. That’s why I sleep at the door “. (Muslim). The story happened because of the high sense of love between the two.

Thus the article about 15 ways the Prophet loved his wife, it needs to be understood that the Prophet did this not because of seduction but did it with the intention of making his wife happy and worshiping Allah.

Indeed, as ordinary human beings we will not be fully able to emulate the Prophet because he is indeed the most perfect figure among all humans, but it is better that we always do and imitate the example of the Prophet with the best and best we can, so that affection and domestic life arise beautiful.

Get here first, friend, the discussion this time. Hopefully it can bring benefits to all of you. See you in the next article. Thank you for taking the time to stop by. Warm greetings from the author.

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